Month: July 2022

This Gospel is challenging. Loving anyone more than I love my family feels impossible. It is hard thinking that God gave me these people to journey through life with only to say “love them but love me more.” 

But that’s exactly how it is. It’s true I love him by loving them, but my goal is to be with him in heaven. We help each other grow in holiness and the goal of marriage is to help your spouse get to heaven but we must always put God first. He even says that if we love our parents or children more than him, we are not worthy of him. 

This isn’t an exhortation to not love my family but an affirmation of how important it is to love God. My heavenly Father must be first in my heart because he ordained it to be that way. In loving God we fulfill our reason for existing. We were created to freely love him and that is where we find true joy and peace.

Yes, we love our husbands and children but we must love God more. We receive the grace to do this through the sacraments. We receive Jesus in Holy Communion and we are reconciled to him in confession. God knows our weaknesses and he sent us his Son to teach us how to love him more. Jesus is a loving and gentle teacher and if we entrust ourselves to him, he will show us how to put our Father first in all we do and are. 

Where in your life do you need to put God first?

Jesus, please teach me how to love you more. Help me to put you first in everything.

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Este Evangelio es un reto. Amar a alguien más que amar a la familia parece imposible. Es difícil pensar que Dios me dio a estas personas para viajar por la vida con solo decir “ámalos pero ámame más”.

Pero así es. Es verdad que amo a Dios amándolos a ellos, pero mi meta es estar con él en el cielo. Nos ayudamos los unos a los otros a crecer en la santidad y el objetivo del matrimonio es ayudar al cónyuge a llegar al cielo, pero siempre debemos poner a Dios primero. Incluso dice que si amamos a nuestros padres o hijos más que a él, no somos dignos de él.

Esto no es una exhortación a no amar a la familia, sino una afirmación de cuán importante es amar a Dios. Mi Padre celestial debe ser primero en mi corazón porque así lo ordenó. Al amar a Dios cumplimos nuestra razón de existir. Fuimos creados para amarlo libremente y ahí es donde encontramos el verdadero gozo y la paz.

Sí, amamos a nuestros esposos e hijos, pero debemos amar más a Dios. Recibimos la gracia de hacer esto a través de los sacramentos. Recibimos a Jesús en la Sagrada Comunión y nos reconciliamos con él en la confesión. Dios conoce nuestras debilidades y nos envió a su Hijo para enseñarnos a amarlo más. Jesús es un maestro amoroso y dulce y si nos encomendamos a él, nos mostrará cómo poner a nuestro Padre en primer lugar en todo lo que hacemos y somos.

¿En qué parte de tu vida necesitas poner a Dios primero?

Jesucristo, por favor, enséñame a amarte más. Ayúdame a ponerte primero en todo.

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As a young adult fresh out of missionary life, I used to listen frequently to Christian music. I found inspiration and fervor singing along to all the CD’s I had purchased after picking out my favorite tunes on the radio. Certain songs I listened to over and over again, due to their relevance in my life at the time. 

As the seasons of my life changed and I became a wife and mother to a brood of little ones, I realized how precious silence was and stepped away from listening to music. I never turn on the radio anymore and never pop in CD’s. I don’t have a Pandora app on my phone and don’t go to concerts. Any moment of silence is now a treasure.

But I recently started a new job and my coworker enjoys playing Christian music in the background while we work and I realized once again how enriching music can be. For the past few days I have been singing to myself: “All I know is I’m not home yet, this is not where I belong. Take this world and give me Jesus. This is not where I belong…” (song by Building 429) It reminds me over and over again that the only truly important thing in my life is my Lord and my God. 

Today’s readings are full of many such reminders: Moses reminded the people in today’s First Reading: “If only you would heed the voice of the LORD, your God, and keep his commandments and statutes that are written in this book of the law, when you return to the LORD, your God, with all your heart and all your soul.” The Psalm Response proclaims: “Turn to the Lord in your need and you will live.” The Second Reading states: “Christ Jesus is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of all creation. For in him were created all things in heaven and on earth, the visible and the invisible, whether thrones or dominions or principalities or powers; all things were created through him and for him. He is before all things, and in him all things hold together. He is the head of the body, the church.” And finally, the Gospel reminds us “You shall love the Lord, your God, with all your heart, with all your being, with all your strength, and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself.”

All of these words from Sacred Scripture point toward one thing. God is God and I am not. He has everything in the palm of His hand. He’s got this. No matter how messy life gets (or how noisy), He’s got this. 

I pray that each of you may find a few moments of silence to cherish today, and may they be spent in His presence. Who knows, maybe you will even find yourself singing “Take this world and give me Jesus. This is not where I belong…” 

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Como adulta joven que recién había salido de la vida misionera, solía escuchar música cristiana con frecuencia. Encontraba inspiración y fervor cantando todos los CDs que había comprado después de elegir mis canciones favoritas en la radio. Ciertas canciones las escuchaba una y otra vez, por su relevancia en mi vida en aquel momento.

Would you invite someone to a task by saying how terrible it’s going to be for them? “It’s a dangerous and difficult job, and people are going to hate you for doing it. They will do all kinds of hurtful things to you. They will even kill you.” Um. I’ll pass on that.

This is what Jesus has just said to his Apostles as he sent them out “as sheep in the midst of wolves” to preach the Gospel. Full disclosure. But in today’s Gospel he is telling them that, even though it truly is a difficult task and they will be opposed and even killed (things that naturally cause fear!), they need not be afraid. But the reasons Jesus gives are not the reasons we might expect.

Jesus does not say that everything will be alright, or that the Apostles will only be threatened but not suffer, or that they will be saved from death at the last moment and defeat every enemy. Surely, Jesus is capable of those things. But those are the images of myths and superheroes, but not the images of the Gospel.

On the contrary, Jesus points to the full reality of being an intentional Christian: the cross of opposition, humiliation, and suffering. The cross demands courage, perseverance, and faithfulness, which are possible when we see the purpose and the goal. So Jesus draws the Apostles toward the antidote to fear: an “eternal perspective,” helping them to see things in full cosmic scale, reminding them that there is so much MORE to reality than we normally consider. He reminds them that ultimately, the spiritual takes precedence over the physical, we must seek the Kingdom first, knowing that our value is exponentially greater than we understand. We are loved and cared for in every detail (the very hairs of our head are numbered!) by the Creator who is also our tender Father, so we need not fear anything but sin.

There is always evil and stupidity in the world, and often this is the noisiest and loudest and gets the most attention. But all the weakness and darkness that lies below the surface of the flashy noise will be revealed in the end, like the “man behind the curtain” projecting “the great and powerful Oz,” and we will see that it is nothing.

On the other hand, the steady and subtle movements of the Spirit of God within us and around us are where our attention should be, as it is this Spirit Who empowers us with every grace and virtue and adorns us with spiritual gifts, so that we are prepared for the eternal Wedding Feast. When we know the radiance for which we are created, we fear nothing on this earth. When our treasure is in Heaven and our eyes are fixed on the Heart of God, we will persevere through every difficulty until we are finally safe at Home.

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¿Invitarías a alguien a hacer algo presentándolo como algo terrible para ellos? “Es un trabajo peligroso y difícil, y la gente te va a odiar por hacerlo. Te harán todo tipo de cosas hirientes. Incluso te matarán”. Um…. no gracias.

Esto es lo que acaba de decir Jesús a sus Apóstoles cuando los envió “como ovejas en medio de los lobos” a predicar el Evangelio. La divulgación completa. Pero en el Evangelio de hoy les está diciendo que, aunque verdaderamente es una tarea difícil y se les opondrán e incluso los matarán (¡cosas que naturalmente causan miedo!), no deben tener miedo. Pero las razones que da Jesús no son las razones que podríamos esperar.

Jesús no dice que todo va a estar bien, o que los Apóstoles sólo van a ser amenazados pero no van a sufrir, o que van a ser salvados de la muerte en el último momento y vencerán a todos los enemigos. Seguramente, Jesús es capaz de esas cosas. Pero son imágenes de mitos y superhéroes, no del Evangelio.

Por el contrario, Jesús señala la plena realidad de ser un cristiano intencional: la cruz de la oposición, la humillación y el sufrimiento. La cruz exige valor, perseverancia y fidelidad, lo cuales son posibles cuando vemos el propósito y la meta. Así que Jesús atrae a los Apóstoles hacia el antídoto contra el miedo: una “perspectiva eterna”, ayudándoles a ver las cosas en su escala cósmica completa, recordándoles que hay mucho MÁS en la realidad de lo que normalmente consideramos. Les recuerda que en última instancia, lo espiritual tiene prioridad sobre lo físico, debemos buscar primero el Reino, sabiendo que nuestro valor es exponencialmente mayor de lo que entendemos. Somos amados y cuidados en cada detalle (¡los mismos cabellos de nuestra cabeza están contados!) por el Creador, quien también es nuestro  Padre tierno, por lo que no debemos temer nada, menos el pecado.

Siempre hay maldad y estupidez en el mundo y, a menudo, esto es lo más escandaloso y ruidoso y recibe la mayor atención. Pero toda la debilidad y la oscuridad que yace debajo de la superficie de la bulla se revelará al final, como el “hombre detrás de la cortina” que proyecta “el gran y poderoso Oz” , y veremos que no es nada.

Por otro lado, nuestra atención debe estar en los movimientos constantes y sutiles del Espíritu de Dios dentro de nosotros y alrededor de nosotros, ya que es este Espíritu quien nos fortaleza con toda gracia y virtud y nos adorna con dones espirituales, para que podamos ser preparados para la eterna Fiesta de Bodas. Cuando reconozcamos el resplandor para que fuimos creados, no tenemos nada que temer en esta tierra. Cuando nuestro tesoro esté en el Cielo y nuestros ojos estén fijados en el Corazón de Dios, vamos a perseverar a pesar de cualquier dificultad hasta que finalmente estemos seguros en nuestro hogar celestial.

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