Mary Stood – Memorial of Our Lady of Sorrows / María se Paró – Memoria de Nuestra Señora de los Dolores

“Standing by the cross of Jesus (was) his mother…”

Mary stood. She remained and did not flee. She did not turn away from the most heartbreaking moment of her life (and she had experienced many heartbreaking moments), but stood near her Son, united with her Son, offering her Son. Mary at the foot of the Cross is all pain and prayer.

At the Annunciation, she had said YES to the Lord, even though she could not see all the details that assent included. She said YES, she meant it, and she never drew back from it, even when it was difficult and confusing and heartbreaking. She remained always the woman of faith and hope and love, who encountered the Word, accepted it, assented to it, and never wavered, all the way to Calvary and beyond.

She remained firm in every difficult circumstance: the cold poverty into which she first welcomed the Infant Word into the world, the unexpected flight into a foreign and pagan land to save his life, the daily dust and toil of life, the loss of her son for three days when he was 12, the hidden pains and prayers of motherhood, the separation from him as he left the home she had made for him to embrace the mission the Father had given him, the enemies who plotted to trap him and have him killed, his agony and death at their hands, preparing his lifeless body for the tomb.

Her whole life of joy and sorrow is summed up in her words at the Annunciation: “I am the handmaid of the Lord. Let it be done to me according to your word” (Luke 1:38). From the Cross, Jesus speaks these words to her: “Woman, behold your son.” According to that word, we are all her children.

Mary surrendered all to the Lord, even her beloved Son, because she understood that this was the will of God, and being sinless, her whole being was uniquely open and responsive to the will of God. As a mother to each of us, her motherly Heart desires to lead us to the Heart of her Son, the Source of all that is good and true and beautiful, the Source of salvation and eternal joy. Her heart’s sorrow is that not all respond to the love of her Son. Let us allow her to mother us into the arms of Jesus, and into eternity with Him.

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“…junto a la cruz de Jesús [estaba] su madre…”

María se puso de pie. Ella se quedó y no huyó. No se alejó del momento más desgarrador de su vida (y había vivido muchos momentos desgarradores), sino que estuvo cerca de su Hijo, unida a su Hijo, ofreciéndo a su Hijo. María al pie de la Cruz es todo dolor y oración.

En la Anunciación, ella había dicho SÍ al Señor, aunque no podía ver todos los detalles que incluía ese asentimiento. Ella dijo SÍ, lo decía en serio, y nunca retrocedió, incluso cuando era difícil, confuso y desgarrador. Ella permaneció siempre como una mujer de fe, esperanza y amor, que encontró la Palabra, la aceptó, la asintió y nunca vaciló, hasta el Calvario y más allá.

Ella se mantuvo firme en cada circunstancia difícil: la fría pobreza en la que acogió por primera vez al mundo al Niño Verbo, la huida inesperada a una tierra extraña y pagana para salvar su vida, el polvo y el trabajo cotidianos de la vida, la pérdida de su hijo durante tres días cuando tenía 12 años, los dolores ocultos y las oraciones de la maternidad, la separación de él al dejar el hogar que ella le había hecho para acoger la misión que el Padre le había encomendado, los enemigos que conspiraban para atraparlo y matarlo, su agonía y muerte a manos de ellos, preparando su cuerpo sin vida para el sepulcro.

Toda su vida de alegrías y tristezas se resume en sus palabras en la Anunciación: “Soy la esclava del Señor. Hágase en mí según tu palabra” (Lucas 1:38). Desde la Cruz, Jesús le dirige estas palabras: “Mujer, ahí está tu hijo”. Según esa palabra, todos somos sus hijos.

María entregó todo al Señor, incluso a su amado Hijo, porque entendió que eso era la voluntad de Dios y, al estar sin pecado, todo su ser estaba excepcionalmente abierto y receptivo a la voluntad de Dios. Como una madre para cada uno de nosotros, su Corazón materno desea conducirnos al Corazón de su Hijo, la Fuente de todo lo que es bueno, verdadero y hermoso, la Fuente de la salvación y la alegría eterna. El dolor de su corazón es que no todos responden al amor de su Hijo. Permitámosle que nos lleve a los brazos de Jesús y a la eternidad con Él.

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Kathryn Mulderink, MA, is married to Robert, Station Manager for Holy Family Radio. Together they have seven children (including Father Rob), and four grandchildren. She is President of the local community of Secular Discalced Carmelites and has published five books and many articles. Over the last 30 years, she has worked as a teacher, headmistress, catechist, Pastoral Associate, and DRE, and as a writer and voice talent for Catholic Radio. Currently, she serves the Church by writing and speaking, and by collaborating with various parishes and to lead others to encounter Christ and engage their faith. Her website is www.KathrynTherese.com

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St. Valerian: Saint of the Day for Thursday, September 15, 2022

The massacre of the martyrs of Lyons with their bishop, St. Pothinus, took place during the persecutions of Marcus Aurelius in the year 177. Marcellus, a priest, we are told, by Divine intervention, managed to escape to Chalon-sur-Saone, where he was given shelter. His host was a pagan, and seeing him offer incense before images of Mars, Mercury, and Minerva, Marcellus remonstrated with and converted him. While journeying toward the North, the priest fell in with the governor Priscus, who asked …

Prayer to Our Lady of Perpetual Help: Prayer of the Day for Thursday, September 15, 2022

Behold, O Mother of Perpetual Help, at thy feet a wretched sinner, who has recourse to thee and trusts in thee. O Mother of mercy, have pity on me; I hear all men call thee the refuge and hope of sinners: be therefore my refuge and my hope. Help me for the love of Jesus Christ: hold out thy hand to a fallen wretch, who commends himself to thee and dedicates himself to be thy servant forever. I praise and thank God, who of His great mercy hath given me this confidence in thee, a sure pledge of …

Do You Trust Me? / ¿Confías en Mí?

We adore you, O Christ, and we bless you, because by your Cross you have redeemed the world.

Some time ago, my Pastor was sharing how he studied Greek in his undergrad seminarian years. He loved it because it allowed him to read and understand Scripture in a deeper way. One single detail that he shared has left me pondering this Gospel in a different way today. He shared that the word “believe” in the Greek language, can actually be closer to the word “trust” in English. He shared that throughout the Gospels, when Jesus asks, “Do you believe in me?” a closer translation might be that Jesus is asking, “Do you trust me?”

In our First Reading today, I feel for the Israelites as they moan and groan throughout their journey. They’re tired and starting to doubt, asking the question “why?”. In this moment of despair, it’s obvious they were losing trust in God. They did not trust in where they were being led and were full of complaints… If we’re honest, we’ve all been there. We’ve all hit the human points where we ask God why and our “patience is worn out by the journey”, just like theirs was.

God punishes them for their sins, but his anger does not last. He offers them the bronze serpent, mounted on a pole, and whenever anyone who had been bitten by a serpent looked at it, he lived. The Responsorial Psalm states that God is merciful, forgave their sin, and did not destroy them. He often turns back his anger and does not let his wrath be roused. Do not forget the works of the Lord!

Jesus states in the Gospel today that “just as Moses lifted up the serpent in the desert, so must the Son of Man be lifted up, so that everyone who believes in Him may have eternal life.” Yes, Jesus is the Incarnation, God made Man. Our human condition is lifted up because of this. We, as human beings, are loved so radically that God gave up His only Son, so that “everyone who believes in him might not perish, but might have eternal life.” This is stated two times in today’s Gospel message. I would like you to change the word to trust… So that everyone who trusts in Him might have eternal life. The Israelites were losing their trust in the trenches of the journey. The loss of trust is the start of sin. 

May we not only believe, but trust deeper in our Lord. In the ways that seem unclear and challenging. In the parched and hungry moments of our journey, may we entrust our entire lives to Him and to His will. What does trusting the Lord look like for you? Where can you grow in trusting Him? Personally, this is where the Lord is calling me to grow and I hope in some way He is calling you to a deeper trust too.


Te adoramos, oh Cristo, y te bendecimos, que por tu santa Cruz has redimido al mundo.

Hace tiempo, mi pastor estaba compartiendo cómo estudió griego en sus años como estudiante universitario. Le encantaba porque le permitía leer y comprender las Escrituras de una manera más profunda. Un solo detalle que compartió me ha dejado reflexionando sobre este Evangelio de una manera diferente. Compartió que la palabra “creer” en el idioma griego, en realidad puede estar más cerca de la palabra “confiar”. Compartió eso a lo largo de los Evangelios, cuando Jesús pregunta: “¿Crees en mí?” una traducción más cercana podría ser que Jesús está preguntando: “¿Confías en mí?”

En nuestra Primera Lectura de hoy, siento pena por los israelitas mientras gimen y se quejan a lo largo de su viaje. Están cansados ​​y comienzan a dudar, haciendo la pregunta “¿por qué?”. En este momento de desesperación, es obvio que estaban perdiendo la confianza en Dios. No confiaban dónde los estaba llevando y estaban llenos de quejas. Si somos honestos, todos hemos pasado por eso. Todos hemos llegado a tal punto que le preguntamos a Dios por qué y nos impacientamos igual que ellos.

Dios los castiga por sus pecados, pero su ira no dura. Les ofrece la serpiente de bronce, montada en un asta, y cuando cualquiera que había sido mordido por una serpiente la miraba, vivía. El Salmo Responsorial afirma que Dios es misericordioso, perdonó sus pecados y no los destruyó. A menudo aparta su ira y no deja que su ira se despierte. ¡No olvides las obras del Señor!

Jesús afirma en el Evangelio de hoy que “Así como Moisés levantó la serpiente en el desierto, así tiene que ser levantado el Hijo del hombre, para que todo el que crea en él tenga vida eterna.” Sí, Jesús es la Encarnación, Dios hecho Hombre. Nuestra condición humana se eleva por esto. Nosotros, como seres humanos, somos amados tan radicalmente que Dios entregó a su Hijo único, para que “para que todo el que crea en él no perezca, sino que tenga vida eterna.” Esto se afirma dos veces en el mensaje del Evangelio de hoy. Quisiera que cambiaras la palabra por confiar… Para que todo aquel que confíe en El tenga vida eterna. Los israelitas estaban perdiendo su confianza en las trincheras del viaje. La pérdida de confianza es el comienzo del pecado.

Que no solo creamos, sino que confiemos más profundamente en nuestro Señor. En las formas que parecen poco claras y desafiantes. En los momentos de sed y hambre en nuestro camino, que confiemos toda nuestra vida a Él y a Su voluntad. ¿Cómo es confiar en el Señor para ti? ¿Dónde puedes crecer en la confianza en Él? Personalmente, aquí es donde el Señor me está llamando a crecer y espero que de alguna manera te esté llamando a ti también a una confianza más profunda.

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This reflection was reposted from Diocesan archives. Author: Briana David

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St. Notburga: Saint of the Day for Wednesday, September 14, 2022

Patroness of poor peasants and servants in the Tyrol. Born in Rattenberg, in the Tyrol, she was the daughter of peasants. At eighteen she became a servant in the household of Count Henry of Rattenberg When Notburga repeatedly gave food to the poor, she was dismissed by Count HenryÂ?s wife, Ottilia, and took up a position as a servant to a humble farmer. Meanwhile, Henry suffering a run of misfortune and setbacks, wasted no time restoring Notburga to her post after his wife died. Notburga …

Glory to God # 1: Prayer of the Day for Wednesday, September 14, 2022

Glory to God in the highest,
and peace to His people on earth.
Lord God, heavenly King,
Almighty God and Father,
we worship You, we give You thanks,
we praise You for Your glory.
Lord Jesus Christ,
only Son of the Father,
Lord God, Lamb of God,
You take away the sin of the world:
have mercy on us;
You are seated at the right hand of the Father:
receive our prayer.
For You alone are the Holy One,
You alone are the Lord,
You alone are the Most High,
Jesus Christ, with the Holy …

Up Close and Personal / Íntimamente

Luke tells us in today’s Gospel that Jesus journeyed to a city called Nain. A couple of interesting facts about Nain: The town is in Galilee, just a bit south of Nazareth, and it’s right next to another town called Shunem, which earned its biblical fame as the location where the prophet Elisha raised a boy from the dead in the Second Book of Kings, another of the many foreshadowings of the Savior that can be found in the Old Testament.

This very special miracle that Jesus performed, however, reveals a lot about our Lord and Savior. He journeyed to Nain, so He was not from there, and He didn’t necessarily know a single person there personally. Yet His reaction to the situation, coming across a funeral in progress, is a very personal reaction. He saw the dead man’s mother, a widow who now had no one, and “He was moved with pity for her,” even going so far as trying to comfort her. He stepped up and touched the coffin, doing so during a time when contact with a dead body rendered a person ritually unclean. But Jesus, who obviously wants a personal relationship with people — with us — knows it’s hard to be personal without that close contact, something we all know too well from the pandemic. Jesus ordered him to rise, and he sat up and started talking, and our Lord gave him back to his mother. Gave him to her — what a gift!

Folks, we are that dead young man. Dead because of sin, self-centeredness, materialism, addiction, indifference, any number of things. Jesus sees our troubles, He sees the anguish around us, He is moved with pity, and He wants to touch us, be with us, and have that up close and personal relationship with us. Jesus wants to heal us and then make a gift of us. He does it through Scripture, the sacraments, prayer and the teachings of the Church.

Who, we have to ask, are we a gift for? And how? We can easily discover those answers in St. Paul’s letter to the Corinthians. As Christians, we “are Christ’s Body, and individually parts of it.”

As members of that Body, we all have different abilities and different roles, but we are to use them as Christ did, out of love and service to others in a close, personal way. We’re not all missionaries or clergy or even people with theology degrees. But what we are is gifts from our Lord. Let us gladly and willfully accept that role, go out and be freely given to others.

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Lucas nos dice en el Evangelio de hoy que Jesús viajó a una ciudad llamada Naín. Un par de datos interesantes sobre Naín: el pueblo está en Galilea, un poco al sur de Nazaret, y está justo al lado de otro pueblo llamado Sunem, que ganó su fama bíblica como el lugar donde el profeta Eliseo resucitó a un niño de entre los muertos en el Segundo Libro de los Reyes, otro de los muchos presagios del Salvador que se pueden encontrar en el Antiguo Testamento.

Este milagro tan especial que realizó Jesús, sin embargo, revela mucho acerca de nuestro Señor y Salvador. Viajó a Naín, porque no era de allí, y seguro no conocía personalmente ni a una sola persona allí. Sin embargo, Su reacción ante la situación, al encontrarse con un funeral, es una reacción muy personal. Vio a la madre del muerto, una viuda que ya no tenía a nadie, y “se compadeció de ella”, llegando incluso a consolarla. Dio un paso adelante y tocó el ataúd, haciéndolo en un momento en que el contacto con un cadáver hacía a una persona ritualmente impura. Pero Jesús, quien obviamente quiere una relación cercana con las personas, con nosotros, sabe que es difícil ser personal sin ese contacto cercano, algo que todos sabemos muy bien por la pandemia. Jesús le ordenó que se levantara, y él se incorporó y comenzó a hablar, y nuestro Señor se lo devolvió a su madre. Se lo dio a ella, ¡qué regalo!

Amigos, somos ese joven muerto. Muerto por el pecado, el egocentrismo, el materialismo, la adicción, la indiferencia, cualquier cantidad de cosas. Jesús ve nuestros problemas, ve la angustia que nos rodea, se conmueve y quiere tocarnos, estar con nosotros y tener una relación cercana y personal con nosotros. Jesús quiere sanarnos y luego hacernos un regalo. Lo hace a través de la Escritura, los sacramentos, la oración y las enseñanzas de la Iglesia.

¿Debemos preguntarnos, para quién somos un regalo? ¿Y cómo? Podemos descubrir fácilmente esas respuestas en la carta de San Pablo a los Corintios. Como cristianos, “somos el Cuerpo de Cristo, e individualmente partes de él”. Como miembros de ese Cuerpo, todos tenemos diferentes habilidades y diferentes roles, pero debemos usarlos como lo hizo Cristo, por amor y servicio a los demás de manera cercana y personal. No todos somos misioneros o clérigos o incluso personas con títulos en teología. Pero sí somos regalos de nuestro Señor. Aceptemos gustosa y voluntariamente ese papel, salgamos y seamos entregados libremente a los demás.

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Mike Karpus is a regular guy. He grew up in Michigan’s Upper Peninsula, graduated from Michigan State University and works as an editor. He is married to a Catholic school principal, raised two daughters who became Catholic school teachers at points in their careers, and now relishes his two grandchildren, including the 3-year-old who teaches him what the colors of Father’s chasubles mean. He has served on a Catholic School board, a pastoral council and a parish stewardship committee. He currently is a lector at Mass, a Knight of Columbus, Adult Faith Formation Committee member and a board member of the local Habitat for Humanity organization. But mostly he’s a regular guy.

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St. John Chrysostom: Saint of the Day for Tuesday, September 13, 2022

St. John, named Chrysostom (golden-mouthed) on account of his eloquence, came into the world of Christian parents, about the year 344, in the city of Antioch. His mother, at the age of 20, was a model of virtue. He studied rhetoric under Libanius, a pagan, the most famous orator of the age. In 374, he began to lead the life of an anchorite in the mountains near Antioch, but in 386 the poor state of his health forced him to return to Antioch, where he was ordained a priest. In 398, he …

A Prayer for the Gift of Wisdom: Prayer of the Day for Tuesday, September 13, 2022

Great is the wisdom of the Lord!
God Almighty, Your Wisdom includes
An understanding of what is fair,
What is logical, what is true,
What is right and what is lasting.
It mirrors Your pure intellect!
I entreat You to grant me such Wisdom,
That my labours may reflect Your insight.
Your Wisdom expands in Your creations,
Displaying complexity and multiplicity.
Your Wisdom is an eternity ahead of man.
May Your wisdom flourish forever!

Monday of the Twenty-fourth Week in Ordinary Time

Reading 1 1 Cor 11:17-26, 33

Brothers and sisters:
In giving this instruction, I do not praise the fact
that your meetings are doing more harm than good.
First of all, I hear that when you meet as a Church
there are divisions among you,
and to a degree I believe it;
there have to be factions among you
in order that also those who are approved among you
may become known.
When you meet in one place, then,
it is not to eat the Lord’s supper,
for in eating, each one goes ahead with his own supper,
and one goes hungry while another gets drunk.
Do you not have houses in which you can eat and drink?
Or do you show contempt for the Church of God
and make those who have nothing feel ashamed?
What can I say to you? Shall I praise you?
In this matter I do not praise you.

For I received from the Lord what I also handed on to you,
that the Lord Jesus, on the night he was handed over,
took bread and, after he had given thanks,
broke it and said, “This is my Body that is for you.
Do this in remembrance of me.”
In the same way also the cup, after supper, saying,
“This cup is the new covenant in my Blood.
Do this, as often as you drink it, in remembrance of me.”
For as often as you eat this bread and drink the cup,
you proclaim the death of the Lord until he comes.

Therefore, my brothers and sisters,
when you come together to eat, wait for one another.

Responsorial Psalm Ps 40:7-8a, 8b-9, 10, 17

R. (1 Cor 11:26b) Proclaim the death of the Lord until he comes again.
Sacrifice or oblation you wished not,
but ears open to obedience you gave me.
Burnt offerings or sin offerings you sought not;
then said I, “Behold I come.”
R. Proclaim the death of the Lord until he comes again.
“In the written scroll it is prescribed for me,
To do your will, O my God, is my delight,
and your law is within my heart!”
R. Proclaim the death of the Lord until he comes again.
I announced your justice in the vast assembly;
I did not restrain my lips, as you, O LORD, know.
R. Proclaim the death of the Lord until he comes again.
May all who seek you
exult and be glad in you
And may those who love your salvation
say ever, “The LORD be glorified.”
R. Proclaim the death of the Lord until he comes again.

Alleluia Jn 3:16

R. Alleluia, alleluia.
God so loved the world that he gave his only-begotten Son,
so that everyone who believes in him might have eternal life.
R. Alleluia, alleluia.

Gospel Lk 7:1-10

When Jesus had finished all his words to the people,
he entered Capernaum.
A centurion there had a slave who was ill and about to die,
and he was valuable to him.
When he heard about Jesus, he sent elders of the Jews to him,
asking him to come and save the life of his slave.
They approached Jesus and strongly urged him to come, saying,
“He deserves to have you do this for him,
for he loves our nation and he built the synagogue for us.”
And Jesus went with them,
but when he was only a short distance from the house,
the centurion sent friends to tell him,
“Lord, do not trouble yourself,
for I am not worthy to have you enter under my roof.
Therefore, I did not consider myself worthy to come to you;
but say the word and let my servant be healed.
For I too am a person subject to authority,
with soldiers subject to me.
And I say to one, ‘Go,’ and he goes;
and to another, ‘Come here,’ and he comes;
and to my slave, ‘Do this,’ and he does it.”
When Jesus heard this he was amazed at him
and, turning, said to the crowd following him,
“I tell you, not even in Israel have I found such faith.”
When the messengers returned to the house,
they found the slave in good health.

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